The concise definition of Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW):
Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) refers to men committed to self-determination, and to voluntarism within relationships.
Defining oneself as a Man Going His Own Way (MGHOW) is a statement and an act of self-ownership. Additionally, MGTOW usually encompasses the view that a man has the sole right to decide what his own goals in life will be, rather than accepting goals conferred by others, or by social consensus of peers, or higher social status individuals or collectives. Generally, consensus-conferred male identities or goals are recognized and rejected by MGTOW men as prescriptive, utilitarian, and benefiting others at a cost of socially unrecognized masculine self-destruction or marginalization.1,2,3,4
HISTORY
The phenomenon of male self-determination goes back millennia under names such as free-man, bachelor, stag, freewheeler or men’s rights advocate. Sometimes these self-determined or ‘MGTOW’ men formed groups, the earliest known being that of the Anti-Bardell Bachelor Band of 1898.5 The phrase “Men Going Their Own Way,” or variants such as “going his own way,” or “to go his own sweet way,” in reference to men’s freedoms is hundreds of years old.6
The MGTOW phrase was further promoted in 2004 by members of a men’s rights group.7 Two of those promoters went by the online names ‘Ragnar’ and ‘Meikyo,’ and in an online interview Ragnar describes the moment as follows:
“You see all the ideas were floating around on the internet. We were frustrated that we couldn’t get men to build an organization, couldn’t get men to come to this damned meeting- everybody was going their own damned way, and the fact that men went their own way, we started to use that phrase and we started to talk about what’s important for men… who’s going to define their masculinity? Well, they actually have to do that themselves, they have to find out what it is for themselves. So, as you have the responsibility for your own actions, well then it’s also your responsibility to define who you are as a man.”8
The MGTOW acronym has since enjoyed increasing popularity as a title for male self-determination.
PHILOSOPHY AND POLITICS
MGTOW is viewed as an evolving consciousness of self-determination and way of looking at the world. Unlike the lockstep and dogma of so many contemporary movements, MGTOW is entirely individualistic, even though many men may arrive at the same conclusions from having observed the same phenomena. The MGTOW-symbol promoted by the 2004 promoters shows a path deviating from the main road (ie. individualism), and an arrow (evolutionary potential).9 The same promoters further suggested that MGTOW is not affiliated politically, and efforts are made to “avoid pulling it to the left or to the right politically.”10
References
[1] MGTOW: Facts and Fallacies
[2] A History of MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way
[3] Urban Dictionary – ‘MGTOW’
[4] Everything is wrong with MGTOW (references ‘voluntarism’)
[5] Anti-Bardell Bachelor Band of 1898
[6] Early references to “Men going their own way”
[7] A History of MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way
[8] Dialogue with MGTOW-phrase Founders – July 6, 2012
[9] A History of MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way
[10] A History of MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way
The above definition of Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) also mirrored on the AVfM Wiki – PW.
