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The Men’s Rights Movement: Changing The Cultural Narrative

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The 2024 Ipsos survey answers the question of “Have we gone so far in promoting women’s equality that we are discriminating against men?”

The graph below provides the result of interviewing a total of 24,269 adults, from the countries of Japan, Australia, Brazil, Canada, China, France, Germany, Great Britain, Italy, New Zealand, Spain, U.S.A., Argentina, Belgium, Chile, Colombia, Hungary, Indonesia, Ireland, Malaysia, Mexico, the Netherlands, Peru, Poland, Singapore, South Africa, South Korea, Sweden, Thailand, and Turkey.

Results: 

A graphic depicting responses to the question: Are we discriminating against men?

Source: SBS Australia

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Source: Ipsos

This survey provides robust data about men’s issues becoming recognized by greater numbers of men, rather than wishful guesses and copium regarding an increase in awareness. It confirms a thought I’ve entertained, over the last five years, that Gen Z men are standing on the cumulative activism of the three previous generations of men, while holding the new line…. and its an impressive line. All of which goes to prove that “changing the cultural narrative” is a successful men’s rights enterprise, albiet one that takes a few generations of collective male teamwork to effect change. Political changes will certainly follow as politicians smell which way the breeze is blowing.

It’s worth noting the real movers, as shown in the above graph, are Generation X who made the biggest cognitive jump of all gens: a full 10% increase on the former generation. The only other issue I’d like to touch on, in passing, is the small percentage of Gen Z men who slag off at boomers for being mindless simps to women; the same minority of Z’s who fail to understand that thier own emerging resistance to gynocentrism and misandry is a recapitulation of each generation’s knowledge that went before them, stages of awareness they’ve accumulated unconsciously, and who have now added a bit of thier own to the multi-generational stack of awareness. This is referred to as “cultural recapitulation learning” where stages of previous cultural innovation are incorporated into one’s mind before adding a new layer to the same.

Cultural recapitulation theory

Professor Kieran Egan’s theory of “cultural recapitulation” provides a captivating framework for understanding human cognitive development over time, suggesting that individual growth in knowledge mirrors the broader evolution of human understanding across cultural history.  This interplay between personal awareness and the historical progression of ideas helps us to understand how contemporary shifts in perception, such as those revealed in the above survey of men across generations, might reflect this recapitulative arc, unfolding anew as each cohort engages with its cultural moment.

The accumulating awareness of men’s issues across Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z aligns elegantly with Egan’s vision, extending cultural recapitulation beyond formal education, and into the grassroots evolution of societal consciousness. The survey’s findings stand as an elegant testament to Egan’s theory: a recapitulation not merely of knowledge, but of awakening where each generation refines its inherited questions, inching toward a fuller, if contested, grasp of men’s issues and equality.

In this interplay we see the dual helix of growth—personal and societal—twisting upward together. The Boomer’s nascent feeling of unease surrounding gender roles, the Gen X rebel’s defiant querying of gender issues, the Millennial’s analytical map of the gender territory, and Gen Z’s ironic remix form a continuum, with each stage providing an echo of the previous one as it stumbles toward enlightenment. As male awareness of discrimination rises, so too does the promise of a culture that, through recapitulation, learns to see itself anew, with its vision sharpened by the cumulative insights of those who came before.

When Romantic Love Came To China

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Lynn Pan, in her book “When True Love Came to China,” argues that romantic love, as understood in the Western European sense, began to take hold in China during the early 20th century, particularly around the time of the New Culture Movement and the May Fourth Movement in the 1910s and 1920s. She ties this shift to a broader cultural transformation where traditional practices like arranged marriages and concubinage were increasingly rejected in favor of individual choice, monogamy, and a Western-inspired model of romantic love.

Pan highlights how this period saw Chinese intellectuals and writers, influenced by Western literature and ideas, begin to explore and articulate romantic love as a new gendered social construct, distinct from earlier Confucian notions of duty and familial obligation. This change was not instantaneous but has slowly gained momentum since the 1920s and has accelerated since the start of the 2000s as these modern concepts permeated deeper into Chinese society and literature.

Pan, L. (2015). When true love came to China. Hong Kong University Press.

When European Gynocentrism Came To India

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During British colonial rule in India, the Western customs of romantic love and chivalry began to influence Indian society, particularly among the upper classes, as they sought to project an image of “civilization.” This was the beginning of traditional gynocentrism.

The Indian image of the ‘devi’ (divine woman) was constructed during the British colonial period. By borrowing elements from traditional Hindu Brahmanical, patriarchal values and those of Victorian England, the Indian men made an effort to project themselves as ‘civilized’ in response to the colonial imagery brought into India. The ideas of ettiquette, chivalry, and romantic love were implanted onto existing patriarchal joint family norms. 1

During the period of the Raj, Anglo-Indian romance novels written by British women, and these love stories were symptomatic of British fantasies of colonial India and served as a forum to explore interracial relations as well as experimenting with the modern femininity of the New Woman witthin Indian culture.2 These Anglo-Indian romance novels often explored interracial relationships, with racial differences serving as a structural framework for the romantic narrative. 2

The idea of romantic love, shaped by British Romanticism and chivalric notions, influenced literature, culture, and societal norms in colonial India. Below are some scholarly works and key references that address this topic:

1. “The Romantic Imagination in Colonial India” by Homi K. Bhabha
  • Summary: Bhabha examines how colonial subjects in India were influenced by European Romanticism, which included ideals of individualism and emotional expression in love. The British colonialists, through their literature and cultural practices, promoted a concept of love that was distinct from traditional Indian ideals.
  • Citation: Bhabha, H. K. (1994). The Location of Culture. Routledge.
2. “The British Empire and the Culture of Romance” by James D. Laidlaw
  • Summary: This book explores how the British Empire, including its administration and literature, promoted the ideals of chivalric love, heroic virtue, and emotional expression, which were later incorporated into Indian culture. It discusses how British officers and administrators saw themselves as part of a chivalric mission in their dealings with India.
  • Citation: Laidlaw, J. D. (2002). Romanticism and Colonialism: An Historical Study. Cambridge University Press.
3. “Love, Romanticism, and Imperialism: A Cross-Cultural Analysis of British and Indian Love Narratives” by Gauri Maulik
  • Summary: Maulik delves into the cross-cultural exchange between Britain and India, focusing on how British romantic narratives influenced the portrayal of love in Indian literature. Romanticism, as shaped by British literature, was absorbed and adapted in the Indian context, often blending with traditional Indian ideals of love.
  • Citation: Maulik, G. (2010). Love and Empire: Colonial Encounters in Romantic Literature. Oxford University Press.
4. “Colonial Encounters: Gender and the Indian Elite” by Ania Loomba
  • Summary: This work focuses on the gender dynamics during the colonial era, including how British ideas of romance and love affected the portrayal of women and relationships in India. British ideas of courtly love, often steeped in chivalric values, were contrasted with the more rigid and socially structured ideas of love in Indian society.
  • Citation: Loomba, A. (1998). Colonialism/Postcolonialism. Routledge.
5. “Romanticism, Colonialism, and the Cultural Politics of Love” by Elizabeth Jane Hill
  • Summary: This paper examines how the British romantic imagination, with its focus on passionate, often idealized love, affected the cultural landscape in colonial India. It explores how these Western notions of romantic love were adopted by Indian writers, especially in the context of English-educated elites.
  • Citation: Hill, E. J. (2015). Romanticism, Colonialism, and the Cultural Politics of Love. Journal of Postcolonial Writing, 51(2), 163-177.
6. “Colonial Modernity in India” by Partha Chatterjee
  • Summary: Chatterjee discusses the broader impact of British colonialism on Indian society, including how Western concepts of love and marriage became entangled with traditional Indian customs. The “modern” notion of romantic love was promoted among the English-educated elite, especially in literature and the arts.
  • Citation: Chatterjee, P. (1993). The Nation and Its Fragments: Colonial and Postcolonial Histories. Princeton University Press.
7. “The English Language and Indian Literature” by A. K. Ramanujan
  • Summary: Ramanujan addresses the introduction of English literature and the English language in India, which included the romantic and chivalric themes of British poetry and novels. Indian authors, especially those from the English-educated classes, were influenced by these new ideas of love and self-expression, as seen in their works.
  • Citation: Ramanujan, A. K. (1999). The Collected Essays of A. K. Ramanujan. Oxford University Press.

These sources provide a comprehensive view of how British romantic ideals, especially those connected to chivalry and courtly love, influenced Indian society during the colonial period, particularly through literature, education, and elite cultural practices.

To summarise: traditional gynocentrism came to India when romantic love came to India – all compliments of the British Colonial period. This new form of romantic love, based on the feudal model of a man down on one knee before an elevated woman, was seen nowhere earlier in India – despite some traditional concepts of passionate love that existed in the North of India. The British therefore were the ones to introduce romantic gynocentrism for the first time, and it has disrupted traditional Indian culture ever since.

 

References:

[1] Channa, S. M. (2013). Gender in South Asia: Social imagination and constructed realities. Cambridge University Press.

[2] Teo, H. M. (2004). Romancing the Raj: Interracial relations in Anglo-Indian romance novels. History of Intellectual Culture, 4(1).

Gynocentric misreading of Helen of Troy

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Aside from the modern emphasis on Helen’s beauty as the singular rationale for the Trojan War (ie. “The face that launched a thousand ships”), the ancients didn’t place the same emphasis on romantic love as we do today — they had arranged marriages that served political alliances of which Helen was considered property.

Helen was the wife of Menelaus, king of Sparta, and her marriage to him was arranged by both her father Tyndareus and the political leaders of the time.  Her later abduction is described a strategic move to provoke conflict or forge new political alliances. The act of taking Helen could have been a way for Troy to assert dominance or to incite war, knowing well the reaction it would provoke from the Greeks, particularly from Menelaus and his brother Agamemnon, who would rally the Achaean forces. This political dimension is often explored in analyses that look at the power dynamics and alliances of the time.

In other words, men didn’t go to war simply to fight for women out of giddy lust (modern gynocentric interpretation of the Trojan War), but instead did so for wider family alliances and political motives. The phenomenon of international abductions, still carried out by a variety of regimes today, can equally involve male or female hostages – and it leads either to escalated conflict as it did with case of Helen, or to negotiated release. These abductions, including Helen’s, have nothing to do with humans being an inherently ‘gynocentric species,’ which has become a peculiarly modern way of interpreting all historical events.

Comparison of Chat GPT and Grok (2)

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Question: “Are the American Psychological Association’s 2018 Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Boys and Men helpful for understanding masculinity and working with men and boys?”

Grok answer: 

The American Psychological Association’s (APA) 2018 “Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Boys and Men” have been both praised and criticized, reflecting a broad spectrum of opinions on their utility and implications. Here’s a detailed look at both perspectives:
Arguments in Favor of the Guidelines:
  1. Acknowledging Harmful Norms: The guidelines bring attention to how traditional masculinity norms can be harmful when taken to extremes. For instance, they address issues like the suppression of emotions, the pressure to be self-reliant to an unhealthy degree, and the discouragement of seeking help for mental health issues.
  2. Promoting Healthier Masculinities: They encourage psychologists to foster a broader, more inclusive understanding of masculinity, which can lead to healthier psychological outcomes for men. This includes supporting men in exploring a range of emotional expressions and behaviors beyond rigid stereotypes.
  3. Addressing Specific Needs: The guidelines provide a framework for understanding how societal expectations of masculinity can intersect with other aspects of identity (like race, sexuality, socioeconomic status), thus helping practitioners offer more tailored psychological support.
  4. Encouraging Research: By highlighting areas where traditional male roles might need reevaluation, these guidelines stimulate further research into men’s mental health, potentially leading to better therapeutic practices.
Criticisms of the Guidelines:
  1. Perceived Bias Against Masculinity: Critics argue that the guidelines pathologize traditional masculinity, potentially stigmatizing masculine traits. Some see this as an attack on men rather than an attempt to help them, suggesting it might alienate men from seeking psychological help.
  2. Lack of Balanced Perspective: There’s criticism that the guidelines focus too much on the negative aspects of masculinity without adequately acknowledging the positive aspects or the benefits some men derive from traditional roles.
  3. Potential for Misinterpretation: The language used in the guidelines can be seen as overly broad or leading to misinterpretations, where even healthy expressions of masculinity might be viewed through a negative lens by less nuanced practitioners.
  4. Political Undertones: Some have argued that the guidelines reflect more of a political stance on gender issues rather than purely clinical or scientific advice, which might detract from their practical application in therapy.
Conclusion:
Whether these guidelines are “helpful” can largely depend on how they are interpreted and applied:
  • For Understanding Masculinity: They provide a critical perspective on how society shapes male behavior, which can be enlightening for both psychologists and clients in exploring the complexities of gender identity.
  • For Working with Men and Boys: Their utility might vary. They can be invaluable for practitioners who aim to address the specific mental health needs of men by challenging harmful norms. However, they require careful implementation to avoid reinforcing stereotypes or alienating male clients.
In practice, the guidelines should be one of many tools in a psychologist’s toolkit, used with an understanding of each individual’s context, cultural background, and personal values. They might be most beneficial when combined with a broader, more integrative approach to therapy that respects and acknowledges the diversity in expressions of masculinity.
_________________________________________Chat GPT answer:

 

Yes, the American Psychological Association’s (APA) 2018 Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Boys and Men are indeed helpful for understanding masculinity and working with men and boys. These guidelines provide an evidence-based framework for clinicians, educators, and other professionals to better support the mental health and well-being of boys and men, while also addressing the complexities of masculinity.Here are some key ways the guidelines are helpful:

1. Understanding Masculinity as a Social Construct:

The guidelines emphasize that masculinity is not a fixed trait, but a socially and culturally constructed set of norms and expectations that can vary across different communities and historical contexts. The APA encourages professionals to consider how cultural, societal, and family expectations shape boys’ and men’s experiences, behaviors, and identities.

2. Recognizing Harmful Masculine Norms:

The guidelines highlight how certain traditional masculine norms (e.g., emotional stoicism, dominance, self-reliance, and aggression) can be detrimental to mental health. These norms may contribute to issues like depression, substance abuse, relationship problems, and difficulties with emotional expression. The APA recommends that mental health professionals help men and boys challenge and reframe these harmful norms, promoting healthier, more flexible conceptions of masculinity.

3. Supporting Emotional Expression:

One of the key focuses of the guidelines is encouraging boys and men to express a broader range of emotions beyond just anger. Socialization that discourages emotional expression can contribute to psychological distress and problems with emotional regulation. The guidelines advocate for helping men develop emotional literacy and coping strategies that promote emotional well-being.

4. Addressing Gender-Based Inequality:

The guidelines also acknowledge that men and boys can experience gender-based issues, such as pressure to conform to traditional masculine ideals and the consequences of gender-based violence. While the guidelines primarily focus on supporting the well-being of boys and men, they also stress the importance of addressing the harmful effects of gender inequality and fostering a more equitable understanding of gender roles.

5. Mental Health Challenges:

The guidelines recognize that mental health issues like depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation may manifest differently in boys and men due to societal pressures to conform to masculine norms. For example, men are often less likely to seek help for mental health problems, and they may express distress in ways that are less commonly recognized as such, such as through irritability, anger, or substance abuse. The guidelines suggest that clinicians should be attentive to these nuances when diagnosing and treating boys and men.

6. Cultural Sensitivity and Intersectionality:

The APA stresses the importance of considering the intersectionality of masculinity, recognizing that race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status, and other factors significantly shape how boys and men experience and express their identities. For example, a Black boy may experience masculinity differently than a white boy due to systemic racism. The guidelines advocate for culturally sensitive approaches that take these factors into account.

7. Fostering Positive Role Models:

The guidelines encourage promoting positive male role models who challenge harmful stereotypes and demonstrate healthy, non-toxic forms of masculinity. Such role models can help boys and men develop more diverse and positive gender identities.

Conclusion:

The APA’s 2018 guidelines provide an important framework for professionals working with boys and men, offering insights into how masculinity affects their psychological well-being. The guidelines emphasize the need for a nuanced, culturally sensitive approach to addressing the challenges faced by boys and men, while also encouraging the dismantling of harmful masculine norms that can lead to mental health problems. These guidelines are helpful in guiding both mental health practitioners and society in creating healthier, more supportive environments for boys and men.
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Comparison of Chat GPT and Grok

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Question to both Chat GPT and Grok:  “Is it possible that misandry is just as common, or more common socially than misogyny, but that it has less research thus leading to a misconception that misogyny is more common?”

GROK ANSWER:
It’s possible to consider that misandry might be underreported or under-researched, leading to misconceptions about its prevalence relative to misogyny. Here are some points to consider:

  1. Research Bias and Focus:
    • Historical Context: Research on gender issues has traditionally focused on the disadvantages faced by women due to centuries of documented oppression, which might skew the perception that misogyny is more common.
    • Funding and Academic Interest: There’s been more academic and institutional focus on women’s issues, which can lead to a body of research that heavily documents misogyny. Less attention might be given to misandry, not because it’s less prevalent, but because it’s less studied.
  2. Cultural Perception and Acknowledgment:
    • Cultural Norms: Societal norms often dictate that men should be stoic or that it’s less acceptable for men to express vulnerability, which might mask or minimize the acknowledgment of misandry.
    • Stereotypes: Men are often seen as inherently privileged, which can lead to the dismissal of issues like misandry as less significant or even non-existent.
  3. Manifestations of Prejudice:
    • Obvious vs. Subtle: Misogyny might manifest in more overt, violent, or institutionalized forms that are easier to quantify and study. Misandry might be subtler or expressed in ways that are less systematically documented (e.g., through media portrayal or casual sexism).
    • Intersectionality: The intersection of gender with other forms of discrimination might highlight misogyny more prominently because women often face compounded disadvantages.
  4. Social and Political Climate:
    • Activism and Movements: The rise of feminist movements has significantly increased the visibility of misogyny. In contrast, men’s rights movements, which might highlight misandry, have not gained similar widespread acceptance or visibility, potentially due to backlash or misunderstanding of their goals.
  5. Data Collection and Bias:
    • Victimization Surveys: Surveys on gender-based violence or discrimination predominantly focus on women as victims, not because men are never victims, but because the scale of documented violence against women is significant.
    • Reporting Bias: Men might be less likely to report instances of discrimination or prejudice due to cultural stigma or fear of ridicule, leading to underrepresentation in data.
Conclusion: While it’s theoretically possible that misandry could be as common or even more common than misogyny, the current consensus based on available research suggests misogyny is more widespread due to its clear, systemic impacts. However, this does not preclude the existence of significant misandry, which might be underreported or under-researched. A more balanced approach to gender studies, including equal scrutiny of prejudice against all genders, would help clarify these dynamics. If misandry is indeed more common or equally prevalent, it would require a substantial reevaluation of how we collect, analyze, and discuss gender issues in society.
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CHAT GPT ANSWER:

It is an interesting question, and it highlights the complexities of how gender-based prejudices are perceived and studied. While it’s true that there may be less research on misandry compared to misogyny, there are several factors that make it unlikely that misandry is as common—or more common—than misogyny socially, at least on a global or systemic level.

1. Historical and Structural Context:

Misogyny has deep roots in many cultures, dating back to patriarchal social structures where men historically held positions of power. This power dynamic has affected the way women are treated in areas such as politics, economics, education, and personal relationships, contributing to systemic inequalities. Misogyny is embedded in institutions, and this institutionalized discrimination has affected women globally for centuries.

In contrast, misandry does not have the same historical, structural, or institutional foundation. While there are certainly instances of misandry, it typically does not manifest in a way that systematically disadvantages men in the same manner that misogyny has for women.

2. Socialization and Gender Norms:

Many societies have socialized men and women in ways that support patriarchal gender norms, where masculinity is often associated with strength, authority, and dominance, and femininity with submission or nurturing roles. As a result, men have often been in positions of authority and power, and many systems were built to support these roles. Misandry may occasionally emerge as a reaction to these norms, but it’s generally less institutionalized or widespread.

Misogyny, on the other hand, is often reflected in these same gender norms, where women are expected to conform to traditional roles of submission, domesticity, and passivity. These expectations continue to shape the experiences of women in most societies.

3. Cultural Perceptions and Prevalence:

Misogyny is more widely discussed and researched because it has pervasive social consequences. Gender-based violence, the gender pay gap, unequal access to healthcare, underrepresentation in leadership roles, and harmful stereotypes about women are well-documented and observed globally. These systemic forms of misogyny have a profound effect on women’s lives and are more visible in social discourse and academic research.

Misandry, while harmful and present in certain contexts, is less commonly studied or discussed in the same depth. It tends to be less noticeable in terms of structural inequality, and it is less likely to be reflected in broader patterns of discrimination, violence, or underrepresentation.

4. Media and Public Discourse:

While there are instances of misandry in media portrayals (such as negative stereotypes about men in certain TV shows or movies), the vast majority of media content continues to reinforce traditional gender roles and portray women as secondary to men. The widespread portrayal of women in victimized or subordinate roles, in addition to the disproportionate focus on women’s experiences of violence, discrimination, and inequality, reflects the broader patterns of misogyny.

Additionally, research on issues such as gender-based violence, reproductive rights, and workplace inequality overwhelmingly focuses on the struggles of women due to the extensive evidence of systemic disadvantages they face. Misandry, though harmful, does not typically produce the same kinds of broad, documented, and institutionalized harm.

5. Research and Perception:

The relative lack of research on misandry does not necessarily mean that it is as prevalent as misogyny. It’s important to distinguish between personal experiences of prejudice (which could happen in isolated incidents) and systemic patterns of inequality that affect entire genders in broad and institutional ways. Misogyny has been studied extensively because of its widespread social, political, and economic consequences, whereas misandry has not typically manifested in ways that similarly affect large-scale societal structures.

Conclusion:

While it is true that there may be less research on misandry, the argument that it is as common or more common than misogyny is not supported by the weight of historical, structural, and social evidence. Misogyny has been and remains a significant, pervasive issue with systemic impacts on women worldwide. Misandry, while it does exist and should not be ignored, does not have the same kind of widespread, deeply embedded consequences in most societies. Therefore, while more research on misandry would be valuable, it is unlikely that it is as widespread or socially impactful as misogyny.
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Romantic love and the medieval birth of the heart emoji

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The transition of the human heart symbol from an anatomically accurate depiction to the more stylized, emoji-like heart we recognize today has a complex history that spans centuries. The heart image we associate with romantic love was first depicted as a heart-shaped pear being shared with a lover, which appeared in the illustrated 13th century French work Li romanz de la poire (“Romance of the Pear”).

The Heart Offering from 1338-44 is considered the first distinctly stylised heart as representation of romantic love. Here (below) a woman gives her heart, shaped as we all know it today, to a man who holds his hand over his own heart.

In one of many pre-modern depictions of the agony of romance, a 1620 drawing from Stuttgart titled “The Contortionist Lover,” shows a woman goading her tortured partner with a heart on a stick:


Interestingly, not only was this stylised depiction of a heart created within the romantic love tradition, but so too was the emblem of a broken heart which appears below in an allegorical depiction of women’s power over men’s hearts (woodcut, 15th century by Master Casper von Regensburg, Berlin, SMB, Kupferstichkabinett) – titled “The Power of Minne.”

For more on the history of the heart image, see also: ‘Frau Minne’ the Goddess who steals men’s hearts: a pictorial excursion

When was the custom of gynocentric chivalry first introduced into India?

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The following question was posed to X-AI:

Question: When were the European customs of gynocentric chivalry and romantic love likely introduced into India?

X-AI answer:

The European customs of gynocentric chivalry and romantic love were likely introduced into India during the colonial period, particularly with the expansion of British influence in the 19th century. This period saw significant cultural exchange and the spread of Western literature, customs, and social norms, which included the romantic ideals of chivalry and courtly love from medieval Europe.

  • Colonial Influence: With the British colonization of India, there was an introduction of European literature and cultural practices. British colonial administrators and the educational system brought with them Victorian ideals, which were imbued with chivalric notions of romantic love. This was part of a broader cultural impact that influenced Indian society, including its views on gender roles and love.

  • Literature and Art: The spread of European literature such as novels and poetry, which often celebrated romantic love and chivalry, influenced Indian writers and intellectuals. This can be seen in the evolution of Indian literature where themes of romantic love began to reflect Western influences.

  • Historical Context: While India had its own rich traditions of love and courtship, the specific European model of gynocentric chivalry, with its emphasis on the pedestalization of women, was a new layer added during the colonial era. This period saw a merging of indigenous practices with European ones, leading to a hybrid form of romantic expression in India.

Therefore, while India had its own forms of romantic expression before European contact, the specific customs of gynocentric chivalry and courtly love as known from medieval Europe were likely integrated into Indian culture through British colonial influence in the 19th century.

 

Gynocentric economies eventually lead to low birth rates

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Population growth is tied to economic growth. Gynocentric culture initially seemed great for promoting economic growth as it stimulated men to work harder to buy more for women – not to mention women buying more for themselves and thier families.

So the gynocentric ethos is great for creating a booming economy…… until it isn’t. It leads eventually to narcissism and the collapse of the birthrate (kids get in the way of gynocentric narcissism, a disposition which is directly opposed to family love).

Earning & spending on gynocentrism is great for the money machine…. until there’s negative birth rate. Then its game over.

The obvious economic fix now is to swap out gynocentrism in favor of family-centrism. The two can’t co-exist because they are opposed motives. So for all those people wailing about the need to have more kids, there’s just one thing you have to discard first… and then it will be all systems go. Good luck!

With that summary of the topic, let me now go back and explain what I mean by a gynocentric economy.  It’s an economy that supports women as the primary household buyers and spenders who make the larger share of major buying decisions whether that be a car, house, overseas holiday, household food, goods, furniture and decor.

As corrolary to woman as spender, men are upheld as the primary money earners who labor to make women as financially comfortable as possible. Note that this kind of arrangement is not universal or essential; the economic setup can be equally geared to the family as primary economic unit, of which I’ll say more in a moment, instead of the gendered hierarchy of women as primary economic conduit.

A recent comment by American traditional conservative Charlie Kirk explains the ‘man as earner / woman-as-spender’ custom, which he published on platform X in December 2024 as follows:

CHARLIE KIRK: “Let me tell the men out there, you do not spend a dime on video games or sports games or things for yourself until your wife does not have to worry about finances. You come last in the family when it comes to finances. Period. That is your job.” 

This wedding of money to women’s happiness has been a speciality of American culture and economics for the last two centuries. For example, in the year 1903, international culture critic Max O’Rell observed the following:

“The American man is the most devoted and hard-working husband in the world. The poor, dear fellow! He works, and he works, and he works, and the beads of perspiration from his brow crystallize in the shape of diamonds all over the ears, the fingers and the neck of his interesting womankind. He invites her to share his pleasures, but he saves her the trouble of sharing his anxieties. The burden of life from seven in the morning till seven in the evening rests on his shoulders alone.”

In similar vein, The Independent newspaper published the following summary in 1909:

“In Europe the aristocracy is largely relieved from drudgery in order that they may cultivate the graces of life. In America the attempt is being made to relieve the women of all classes from drudgery, and we are glad to see that some of them at least are making good use of the leisure thus afforded them. It is a project involving unprecedented daring and self-sacrifice on the part of American men, this making an aristocracy of half the race. That it is possible yet remains to be proved. Whether it is desirable depends upon whether this new feminine aristocracy avoids the faults of the aristocracy of the Old World, such as frivolousness and snobbishness.”


More on the theory behind collapsing birth-rates

First premise: Gynocentrism fosters narcissistic behavior in women. (hold that thought)1

According to a 2019 study,2 individuals with higher levels of narcissism in young adulthood were less likely to have children by midlife, which indicates that narcissists may have fewer children. This study found that vanity, a facet of narcissism, was associated with fewer children and less stable relationships, suggesting a potential link between high narcissism and having fewer children. This is supported by a 2025 study which found that vulnerable narcissism (which is more typically expressed by women), but not grandiose narcissism (which is more typical of men) was related to lower reproductive motivation and fertility.3

Second premise: A gynocentrically oriented economy, such as we have in the West, thrives only until the generated increase in narcissism reaches critical mass and negatively impacts the birthrate, resulting in a weakened, vulnerable economy.

Contrast with Asia

By way of contrast, when I talk to older Asians about their work ethic and spending habits, they usually say they are doing it “for the family” instead of for wife or women. However, the problem we have in much of the world today is that these two models – gynocentric economics vs. family economics – are clashing and causing birth-rate paralysis, with family economics getting crushed under the weight of a growing, but increasingly maladaptive gynocentric economy.

As an aside, I note the different pitch some older Asian women make to husbands. They nudge husbands to man-up “for the family” instead of “for women,” and as part of that framework the women sees her own role as equally requiring her to ‘woman-up’ for family in terms of economic contributions.

Sadly, most younger Asian women have now caught the gynocentric virus, and their language has changed to saddling husbands with the need to economically man up for her and to provide an economic pedestal for her to sit on…… hence why there’s a birthrate problem growing in Asia too.

Whatever the future brings, one thing is absolutely certain: there will be increasing hardship due to the collapsing birthrates around the world. At some point cultures will be forced to make a shift away from the negative costs of gynocentrism, and toward a traditional family-centrism that forms the basis of all healthy societies – societies that showcase healthy birth rates, and allow for sustainable economies that depend on them.

Sources:

[1]  Wright, P. (2020). GYNOCENTRISM AS A NARCISSISTIC PATHOLOGY. New Male Studies, 9(1). and Wright, P. (2023). GYNOCENTRISM AS A NARCISSITIC PATHOLOGY PART 2. New Male Studies, 12(1).

[2] Wetzel, E., Grijalva, E., Robins, R. W., & Roberts, B. W. (2020). You’re still so vain: Changes in narcissism from young adulthood to middle age. Journal of personality and social psychology, 119(2), 479.

[3] Mededovic, J., & Jovanov, N. (2024). Explaining the Links Between Narcissism and Fertility: Are There Differences Between the Grandiose and Vulnerable Component?. Evolutionary Psychological Science, 1-10.

Presumption Of Male Disposability Is Based On Flawed Hypotheses

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The following paper was first published in December 2024 in New Male Studies Journal and is republished with permission.

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