“His money is our money, my money is my money”

The following items explore the history of material contributions to marriage from both husband and wife, and thier respective families. The traditional contribution of dowry toward a conjugal fund helped to support the married couple — this in contrast to the more recent trend of “romantic love marriages” where typically women bring no material contributions to the relationship table.

VIDEOS AND ARTICLES

Is Love Enough To Marry On? – by Helen Rose (1927)
The Dowry System Makes For Wedded Bliss – by Dorothy Dix (1932)
Dowry System Favored As A “Good Investment” – by Dorothy Dix (1935)
Dowries Would Save Many Divorces – by Dorothy Dix (1939)
Brides Must Have Dowries Or marriage Will Go – by Beryl Castle (1935)
Decline In Dowry Practice Linked To Rise In Romantic Love – J. Balwick (1975)
A Discussion on Marital History with Paul Elam & Shah
What Does She Brings to the Table? ~ Discussion with Paul Elam & Shah
Romantic Gynocentrism vs. The Dowry ~ Stream by This Is Shah
What Is Dowry? : Women & Rules of Modern Dating ~ by “It’s Complicated”
Romantic Love vs. Material Interest in Nineteeth-Century Germany – by This Is Shah
– Dowry Debate: The Newspaper Articles – by This Is Shah
Most “Trad” Women Aren’t Actually Traditional – by This Is Shah

‘GOLD PILL’ PHILOSOPHY

– Taking the Gold Pill: A Paradigm Shift in Understanding Relationships
– A very short definition of the ‘gold pill’ (Peter Wright)
– Gold Pill Credo on Reddit (by iTrebor)
– This Is Shah: Why the Gold Pill?
– Urban Dictionary Definition for The Gold Pill (Mundus Imaginalis)
– The Gold Pill: Rebuilding Relationships With Ancient Wisdom (Sufjan S. Fannin)
– The Gold Pill: What It Can Do For A Civilization On The Brink (Sufjan S. Fannin)
– The Gold Pill: Checkmate, Trad Con-Artists (Sufjan S. Fannin)
– I Am the Table—Rethinking Contributions in Modern Relationships (Sufjan S. Fannin)
– The Discussion – The Gold Pill Emerges (with Paul Elam and Shah)
– The Gold Pill & Kinds Of Love (by Suviya)
– Gold Pill And The Modwife (by Vernon Meigs)