4 Relationship Models Offered By Women

The following represent four hypothetical models that women might propose for relationships with men. The designation wife  is shorthand for any long-term relationship, whether legally married or not.


Category Essence Dynamics in Marriage/Partnership View on Roles Cultural Echo
Tradwife-1 (Non-gynocentric tradwife) Pre-Victorian traditionalism Reciprocal partnership; both husband and wife contribute meaningfully (work, domestic, emotional, social) Roles may differ but without female privilege; husband not subordinated Medieval / early-modern marriages of mutual duty
Tradwife-2 (Gynocentric, performative tradwife) Post-Victorian / 1950s archetype Husband provides/protects, wife’s comfort and feelings prioritized Two-spheres doctrine; parasitic tendency, wife on pedestal 1950s “perfect housewife” ideal, gynocentric home culture
Feminist wife (Gynocentric, pretense of equality) Modern feminist model Rhetoric of equality, but still gynocentric in practice; woman’s empowerment and comfort prioritized “Equality” reframed as men doing more provision and domestic work while women retain privileges “Strong independent woman” image with hidden male obligation
Modwife (Non-gynocentric libertarian) Modern libertarian partnership Independence for both partners; free cooperation without pedestalizing or scapegoating Roles negotiated freely; neither ideology nor hierarchy dominates Contemporary couples who split bills, share roles, and avoid both tradwife and feminist dogmas

For more on these theoretical models, see the following: